NOT NORMAL BUT THE NORM

Where are your kids and grandkids when the siren sounds?

By Jonathan Feldstein

This is a picture of children lying on the sidewalk in my town, covering their heads with their hands to protect themselves from shrapnel from the ballistic missile that was fired (again) today at Israel. Of course, no hands covering heads will prevent shrapnel from doing tremendous harm, or death. It’s a protocol about as effective as children taking cover under their desks in the 1950s and 1960s in the US in the event of a nuclear attack.  Maybe it makes one feel protected, but let’s be honest….

Dropping with Dread. With no adults around, Israeli children waiting for their school bus, drop to the ground and hold their hands to their heads as sirens sound the warning of an incoming missile from Yemen. (Photo: Facebook/public forum)

The air raid siren sounded at 7:44am today, sending millions of Israelis to bomb shelters unless, like hundreds of thousands of children like these, they were out, on their way to school, or parents taking their kids to school, or going to work. 

Strangely, inappropriately but sadly true, the image was captioned that this is just another “normal” day in Israel. It’s normal from the perspective that we have been living like this not just for weeks, months or even years, but for decades. But it’s anything but normal, and cannot be tolerated.  Israel’s immediate response was to warn Yemini civilians (I wonder how many are following Israeli warnings even in Arabic) to clear out of strategic port areas.  By the time you read this, those strategic port areas may have been bombed “used by Houthis for weapons transfers and terrorism.”  How nice that we warn their civilians. How silly to think they would ever afford us the same courtesy. Afterall, their goal – as with all Islamic jihadists – is to murder and maim as many of us as possible. 

As we sat in the bomb shelter that’s part of our home, the family WhatsApp group got lively with everyone checking on one another, especially my daughter and son-in-law. Last night bedtime was interrupted as they put their four boys to sleep when Houthi terrorists fired a missile at Israel, almost exactly 12 hours earlier. This morning, where were they? Taking kids to school? Were the kids in school already, and if so, how did the teachers quickly scramble to get them all in a bomb shelter?  

Jitters in Jerusalem. People ‘take cover’ in the open as the sound of sirens indicate a missile attack from Yemen, in central Jerusalem, March 27, 2025. (Photo: Reuters/ Oren Ben Hakoon)
 

It turns out that my oldest grandson was on a bus to school the moment the siren was sounded. He is six. What stress it must have caused him, rushing off on a school bus with 40-50 other kids, to take cover in the dirt or on the sidewalk like the children pictured here above. 

What stress for the bus driver who had to manage that quickly and safely, and also deal with any panic among the children.  What stress for my daughter and son-in-law, and us, not knowing where he was or if he was OK and how he managed to get through this, and without a phone to tell everyone he was OK, or scared, or just to be comforted from afar. 

No, this is not normal. Not at all.  But it is our norm

This week, 77 years ago, the State of Israel declared independence from previous British, Ottoman, and other foreign rulers who controlled the Land of Israel for centuries, millennia actually, since the destruction of the Temple in the year 70, and the start of the exile of the Jewish people. When the UN voted to establish a Jewish state in the Jewish homeland six months earlier, the Arabs said “NO” – loudly and repeatedly. They rejected two states if one of the states was a Jewish state. Many, joined by hundreds of millions of other Muslims, still reject today the very right of Israel to exist. 

Kids in Danger. Missile debris falls on kindergarten in northern Israel in February following a ballistic missile from Yemen. Shai Regev, head of education at Kibbutz Mishmar HaEmek, said the kindergarten serves 32 children between the ages of 4 and 6 and was “… a huge miracle,” that the kindergarten had not yet opened. “… it was a terrifying scene that shows just how close the danger is.”

For 77 years, Israel has not had a single day of peace.  We have had to innovate to be able to survive, spending trillions to defend ourselves, and to do so in ways that also involve added risk and massive expense to ourselves, trying to prevent civilian casualties on the other side, whether in Yemen today, or Gaza yesterday, or Lebanon six months ago.

This is not normal, but it is our norm

This week, rather than reflecting on their own values, culture, and society being corrupt and broken, hundreds of millions of Arabs and Muslims, including Palestinian Arabs and many other Arabs and Muslims around the world along with their supporters in the West, will mark what they call “Nakba Day”.  Nakba means ‘catastrophe’ in Arabic.  Yet far from being enlightened to realize that their leaders have failed them all these decades and are the ones responsible for their dire situation, they will chant, protest, threaten, and burn things as they declare that their “catastrophe” is Israel’s very existence.  This is the reality from Gaza to Tehran, from Saana to Syria, from Damascus to Doha.

This is their norm, and no, it’s also not normal.

But as long as their norm is to blame and burn, rather than take responsibility, make peace, and build for the future, this will also be our norm.

In a dozen years, my oldest grandson will go off to the IDF, probably as a combat soldier like his father. I pray that he does not encounter jihadi peers who look at him, at all of us, as the enemy, as illegitimate foreign occupiers. I pray that Palestinian Arabs will rise up not just to reject Hamas and Islamic Jihad, and their extremist Islamic backers in Iran and Qatar, but have a radical change of heart, and realize that by living in their “catastrophe”, it is in fact self-inflicted and self-fulfilling.

Houthis launch missile attack on Israel’s Ben Gurion airport

With President Trump being in the region last week meeting with terrorists in suits from Syria, Turkey, Qatar, the Palestinian Authority, and more, I hope that he delivered a message that will pave the way to a better future for all the children of the Middle East and where Israeli kids never, while waiting to catch their school bus have to suddenly bury their faces in the ground, “protecting” their heads from incoming missiles with their little hands.



About the writer:

Jonathan Feldstein ­­­­- President of the US based non-profit Genesis123 Foundation whose mission is to build bridges between Jews and Christians – is a freelance writer whose articles appear in The Jerusalem Post, Times of Israel, Townhall, NorthJersey.com, Algemeiner Jornal, The Jewish Press, major Christian websites and more.






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